

"Hi. How do I turn my wife into a sex wife?"
This is the hardest question I get in my inbox. Those who ask it have no idea how complex it really is.
First of all, couples often come to this kind of arrangement when their relationship is already falling apart. They see it as a last-ditch effort to save it. Like, you’ll do this, and passion will reignite in new colors.
Maybe it’s possible, but this rarely works. In such cases, there’s a 99% chance your wife will leave you for the first person she sleeps with.
Secondly, in almost every case, men are the initiators of this kind of relationship. And, as is typical for men, they go about it directly, without any intrigue or subtlety. “I want you to sleep with someone else!”
Based on the vast number of "consultations" I’ve had, more than half of men take this approach. They say it bluntly and push too aggressively for their fantasy to become reality.
There are many other scenarios, but I’ll start with these two.
Now, let me explain what a girl or woman feels and thinks when her beloved suggests she sleep with another man—become a slut.
Yes, exactly that. In her eyes, you’re suggesting she become a slut. And how could someone who loves her propose such a thing?
You’ll likely get a harsh negative reaction, potentially even leading to divorce or separation.
To start the conversation with your partner for the first time, ask yourself these questions:
1. Are your relationships already falling apart?
2. Do you truly know and understand your partner?
3. Are you ready to face a strong negative reaction after making such a proposal?
4. Are you ready to keep proving your love, again and again, if she agrees?
5. Are you prepared for the day your wife comes home satisfied by another man? Her behavior will be unpredictable, and you must respond with understanding, without a hint of reproach (even though you might feel like it). Otherwise, if she senses even a trace of doubt in your eyes, everything might collapse. Because fantasies are one thing, but reality can be entirely different.
P.S. And also, you must be ready to wear something like this 😈