Some hustle to be seen… I grind to disappear. Casual nudes, ..

Some hustle to be seen… I grind to disappear. Casual nudes, slice of life pics. Mostly with my kitten. Swipe all the way for nude video clips. Something for everyone haha 💖

I’ll be posting my writing, thoughts, and random vignettes and experts from my Cyberhorny project along with my digital porn. If I made you think or made you cum, or both 😏, it’s a win for me.

The biggest thing I get out of being online is being able to relate to people with the same mento iwwnesses as me and spread some type of empathy for those who are suffering. The unique thing about OF is it provides a parasocial connection, so you can connect with your favorite digital porn stars.

I know you are 99% here for porn. My porn is just a distraction, but it can also be healing. Sex is a healing modality, sex workers can be healers. Porn can be an incredible outlet, or a sprawling addiction, depending on how you frame things societally. Our culture is obsessed with its aesthetics and visuals, yet porn is derided and many are quick to blame porn stars for addition and toxicity.

Don’t hate the player, hate the game. We do what we can to survive in a system that is built on inequality and exploitation. By taking control of our production, our intellectual property, and our incomes, we create a polarizing space of “empowerment” and “condemnation”. Many creators feel empowered to start an OF for fun and sexual expression, others do so because of the believe there is quick easy money in this. Most do it for financial gain, which is totally valid, but in no way whatsoever is SW easy money or a light dalliance. It requires a tough psychological makeup and there’s a reason most people in the field retire early.

I know the meta analysis and deconstruction of this cyber reality turns some of you off, which is why I balance it with nudes. It’s endlessly fascinating to me tho.

Many people assume that irl SW like dancing or escortting/FSSW will be an easy transition to OF/camming, and while there certainly are some overlaps like the major concept of selling a sexual fantasy, the fact is there is a different skill set used for each reality, the corporeal and the digital. Irl SW demands a healthy body, charming attitude, diplomatic client relations, quick thinking, and seeing all possible perspectives in order to be safe and strategize. Digital SW is a numbers game of advertising and social media skills (there is still a customer service approach, tho). It is easier for disabled and neurodivergent people. It is more degrading to me posting cringe advertising than it is posting nudes of my body. My body is just a canvas and a medium.

I am happy with my experiences and I do wish to destigmatize all forms of sex work and the perception both men and women have of it. There is a lot of whorephobia that comes from not experiencing this field and not knowing, just judging. Sex is strange, it illicits polarizing reactions from people. For example, many men call irl providers trashy, desperate, sex addicted, immoral, and fear they are sexually diseased. I assure you that professional providers and dancers are not only viewing sex with a professional and logical eye, they in most cases take better sexual health care than the random hookup on tinder. All interactions are transactional, financially or otherwise; the difference in SW is that workers are aware of them and handle them with a different kind of openness. We’re human beings, we’re workers, we’re sluts, we’re artists, we’re healers.

People will also assume that experiences in any form of SW - especially irl work - will make someone a more tarnished, worse person. Damaged goods. Filthy. In cases where the industry chews and spits ppl out, esp with middlemen, it may lead to a disgust of the entire industry, but from my own perspective this has been a much more ethical and professional field than most vanilla jobs I’ve worked. Right now, I am very happy doing OnlyFans and wish to do it for as long as I possibly am able to. If I get deplatformed, which happens all the time online, I will expand to other online sites. It is a privilege to work from home and I do not take it lightly. Digital SWers I believe should be respectful of their irl predecessors and also ponder their own views of internalized whorephobia. Online is a totally different realm, one on which many men feel entitled to my time and free content, but I do believe the energy I put out into the world draws for the most part respectful people to my page. You being an amazing group of subscribers makes me want to be a better creator. I course correct my content depending on the flow of the market.

If you’ve been following me for a while, you will probably have noticed the evolution of XXX-ness of my content. Irl, I don’t have to be naked online. Online is a different territory. When I started I barely posted titty pics, I was shy, in my past camgirl experience I was super shy too, and I slowly transitioned to showing more and now I post full nudes, full length videos (in campaigns like this one I will always post a full length video or several https://onlyfans.com/229444314/nastyavalentine and just look through my Videos section if you want to get off to the stuff on my feed).

The last poll I did was a very interesting experiment. I do my best to give you what you want, and what I can. I already post lots of explicit things on the feed, I will continue to do so, and I believe I am very generous with my content (critique me if you perceive me to be wrong) but you have to realize I can’t work for free lol. You can’t go into a coffee shop and say hey I paid for a coffee can I have a sandwich? The $12 for your subscription (less if you found me on sale) is pennies, man. I do my best to work with discounts for my full length content but if you want completely free porn, there are many outlets available online. Parasocial porn with quality production is a luxury and if you cannot afford it, please take care of yourself first and go jerk off on phub or to a cheaper creator.

I’m really thankful that most of you here are respectful of my work and boundaries and pay for the content I work hard on, so I will do my best to bring you the content you want and cater to your gaze while running my page the way I intend to. Thank you for reading if your eyes haven’t glazed over by now ❤️