So we’ve covered both nutrition and personal Time for a fun..
Added 2020-12-04 21:09:18 +0000 UTCSo we’ve covered both nutrition and personal Time for a fun fact about SEX! I saw this tweet the other day that resonated so severely with me that I printed it out and pinned it to my wall. It read, “intimacy begins when performance ends.” I know that I’m not the only cam girl, model, girl, HUMAN to place performance over intimacy. Toxic masculinity teaches us to look for sexual validation as opposed to the validation of the self through genuine love. I know that I fell into the performance side of this job far too quickly. It wasn’t until recently did start to make the shift. My most recent spicy content was my attempt at genuinely sitting back and enjoying the experience opposed to trying to perform for someone else. (DM me and I can send you the previews!) These videos are, undoubtedly, my best work yet but it’s hard to stay aware enough, all the time, to know when you’re performing vs when you’re not. It takes practice. And no wonder we are like this! We’ve been raised on Cosmopolitan, mainstream porn, and movies. No wonder we have no idea how to take in intimacy. I can’t even imagine what it must be like for men. If you wanted to share your experience with “performing” over “intimacy” I’d love love LOVE to hear your experiences. Dm me or comment, I’m all ears. So I encourage you, the next time you have sex/the next time you make a video for someone else/the next time you pleasure yourself alone, to be more in tune with your body. What does it want to do vs what are you doing? Don’t worry about riding them like how you saw in porn. Ride that dick CUZ IT FEELS GOOD THIS WAY. Chances are, he will love to see you in that much pleasure. Don’t worry about moving her body the way you read online. Respond to her pleasures as she responds to yours. It’s more flow-y when you’re focused on your own pleasure through their pleasure. The more intimate the experience, the more your body (and soul) will be transformed into that blissful state of love and intimacy. Which, in turn, makes sex so much more enjoyable.
