







DAY IN THE LIFE Ever wonder what a day in the life of an online adult content creator begins? Here is mine. Day in the Life – Morning Most often the cats, Rufus in particular, hear me stir and start meowing. This happens between 4am and 6am. I’m an early to bed and early to rise person, a lark, so while I prefer to wake-up on my own I’ve grown used to my feline wake-up call. Sometimes I lie in bed with a pillow over my head to sleep in a bit but usually I get up right away. I drink some water, feed the cats, and stretch. Then I grab my laptop and phone and head to the sofa. I watch a bit of CBC News Network with Heather Hiscox before moving on to my recordings of General Hospital and The Social. While I watch I check my emails and messages across all the platforms I am on (there are 10 where I receive messages every day and 5 others where I get only a couple each week). Then I check my sales and enter the data into a spreadsheet. I wish this took longer. :-) Then I hop on Twitter to do a bit of beginning of the day engagement. I read tweets from my favourite models, performers and writers. My feed is mostly work oriented but I do follow a few famous people like Jann Arden and Roxane Gay and animal profiles like the Squirrelwood Equine Sanctuary and Pockets Warhol. In the morning I tend to tweet candidly but later in the day I plan out quotes and photo posts to schedule since most people are online when I’m asleep. In the morning I drink a few cups of coffee. On my last one I throw in a couple of scoops of collagen powder. You could consider it my first meal. It’s usually around this time that I head back to my bedroom and switch to working on my desktop. I have found that following my cycle helps me do what works best for my physical, cognitive and emotional states as each phase has a significant effect on your different strengths. Thankfully, I’ve been tracking my period and symptoms for years so even as my cycle becomes unpredictable as I transition to menopause I’ve developed an intuition for what will suit me and my productivity best on a given day. When people say that sex work gives them freedom this is one example. I can work in solitude on my financials on the days that ask for some hibernation. I can power through a few photo shoot concepts when I’m feeling sexual and creative. This was NOT the case during my “retirement” years when I worked retail. After a couple of hours of work I have a proper breakfast. Sometimes it’s a smoothie. Sometimes it’s oatmeal with berries and nuts. Sometimes it’s peanut butter on raisin bread toast. I like simple meals. I’m not much of a cook since my divorce a decade ago. Day in the Life – Afternoon Then I work some more while taking breaks to do chores or to assist my mother as I’m her full time caregiver. She is 82. On top of not coming back to full mobility after a surgery for an abdominal aneurysm last year, she was diagnosed with breast, lung and bone cancer. I share this information because I think people forget adult entertainers have very real lives and chose this work in part because it allows for flexibility to take care of our families. At around 3pm I like to get out of the apartment for a walk. I live near a wooded area with trails for easy going walks. These walks help me stay sane. I get a lot of my ideas on my little treks. I used to start the day with my walk but now I like to break my day with them. When I get back I take a hot bath and have supper. For some reason I’ve been on a frozen dinner kick since the pandemic. I usually head to bed right after and watch movies and series on Netflix, Amazon Prime, Disney, Apple TV or Crave. Yes, between my mother and I, we subscribe to a lot. Day in the Life – Evening I fall asleep by 8pm. Day in the Life – Exceptions 1) I switch things up when my sister and her family visits. The computer is locked up and I focus on them. 2) If my mother has medical appointments I do my customer service work for my fan sites and then we go to the appointments. I have little energy for anything else on those days. I might Tweet or write a bit but I won’t shoot or write. 3) This one is sexy. When I have custom videos to shoot I plan my day around them. Depending on the request I might shoot it in the morning or the late afternoon. For anal play I’m more physically relaxed later in the day so that when I do that. This has been the case for the past 20 years. Ass in the afternoon or, even better, in the evening!